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I loved reading through the responses to the questionnaire developed by bluemilk and thought I add my views too:

1. How would you describe your feminism in one sentence? When did you become a feminist? Was it before or after you became a mother?

I define my feminism as neither soft nor aggressive. I take the pragmatic approach instead. I pick my battles and only get into discussions with people I care about or that do harm to others. If someone insist on being ignorant about the cause – so be it, as long as they don’t force their Lalaland onto me.

I cannot pinpoint a time in which I realized that I was a feminist. It came to me gradually. Little comments, illogical expectations or plain stereotyping  would make me feel frustrated. Only in recent years did I become a proud feminist. I take not for granted the liberties that courages women fought so hard for to ensure a better future for following generations of women. I see it as my duty and pleasure to help maintain that momentum and continue supporting the cause for equality. How can I say I’m not a feminist when I’m expecting to be treated fairly? For once there is a label I’m happy to adhere. It only seems negative  if you allow others make it appear this way.

I became a feminist well before motherhood.

2. What has surprised you most about motherhood?

The intense feeling of anxiety for my child and my increased vulnerability as a result of this emotion. Read the rest of this entry »